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And when he would not be persuaded, we ceased, saying, The will of the Lord be done. Acts 21:14

At Miletus, Paul told the Ephesian elders that he did not count his life dear. We see what that surrender cost the people who loved him, and how they faced their own test.

Paul had reached Caesarea and was staying in the home of Philip the evangelist. A prophet named Agabus came down from Judea, took Paul's belt, and tied up his own hands and feet with it. This, he said, is how the man who owns this belt will be bound in Jerusalem. The room broke. Luke and the believers, Paul's closest companions, begged him with tears not to go.

 "Weren't they right to try? Didn't the Spirit Himself warn of what was coming?" Their love was real, and their fear made sense. But Paul answered that their weeping was breaking his heart, and that he was ready not only to be bound but to die for the name of Jesus. Then came their moment. They could keep pleading, or they could let go. They stopped and said, "The will of the Lord be done."

That short sentence was a surrender as real as Paul's. They did not suddenly stop caring, and the danger did not go away. They simply placed their wishes beneath God's. Ellen White shows where such a surrender begins: "You cannot change your heart, you cannot of yourself give to God its affections; but you can choose to serve Him. You can give Him your will; He will then work in you to will and to do according to His good pleasure" Steps to Christ, p. 47.

Sometimes the hardest test is not giving up our own comfort but releasing someone we love into God's hands. We pray for their safety, their health, their path, and that is right. But growing in grace means learning to end those prayers where the believers in Caesarea ended theirs, trusting that His will is wiser and kinder than ours.

Paul teaches us to give our own lives fully to Christ. His friends teach us to give Him the people we love as well, and to find peace in five simple words: the will of the Lord be done.