So why is it hard for so many people to admit they're wrong?
For many, it's pure ego.
Some people would rather lose plausibility than lose face.
Never appearing wrong is more important than always being right.
For others, it's about dodging the consequences for their conduct.
That's why people lie about why they were late for an appointment, about whether they said something they shouldn't have, or about other things that would subject them to criticism, disapproval or, worst of all, civil or criminal liability.
Yes, it's unethical, but it isn't irrational.
The truth is, self-incriminating statements often can and will be used against us.
That's why the real test of character is admitting we're wrong when it's likely to cost more than we want to pay.
-character counts
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